I know what you&rsquo;re thinking! Yes. Dogs, like Summer, are naturally loyal to all their owners. However, when we are asked about what loyalty means to us in a relationship, do we really embody what it means?
You may have experienced multiple breakups because of the common reason&ndash; cheating. Your partner being unfaithful to you is such a heart-wrenching experience. It may feel like it&rsquo;s the end of the world. This usually causes you to snowball into a big pile of trust issues.
Possibly, we think over it for days and days. How could someone go from being all over you to being crazy about another person the next day? Our brain just goes haywire, touching insecurity, self-doubt, anxiety, and everything in between.
Being loyal is one of the pillars of a strong monogamous romantic relationship. It shouldn&rsquo;t even be hard to possess loyalty if you&rsquo;re exclusively involved with a person.
Let&rsquo;s say your partner does like to hide things from you. Assess why they do that, but if you do find no valid reason of why they lie to you, there might be something happening behind your back.&nbsp;
Another thing about loyalty is it is strongly linked to priority. If they truly care and love you, they make you one of their top priorities. Not to the extent that they become obsessed with you, but it just reflects with how they are to you.
Faithfulness to your partner shouldn&rsquo;t come as if you&rsquo;re dragging a ton of blocks behind you. It should be like breathing&ndash; natural. Love is certainly not a game or a bet with your friends because it is a commitment to each other.&nbsp;
This is an open letter to all the people who are having second thoughts on cheating on their partner. The moment you start to have those thoughts, just leave them. You are hurting a person and breaking years and years&rsquo; worth of foundation.
Not everyone could be lucky to quickly find a person who is genuinely loyal and caring. I hope we all find that one person who will never make you feel like you&rsquo;re worth a love tainted with deceit and secrecy.
Because when love is true, it is first and foremost bare.