When you're caught in the middle of emotions, attention, and affection from different people, it can be hard to know who&rsquo;s really right for you. You ask yourself: &ldquo;Is this love? Is this pressure? Is this real, or just familiar? Baka naman nadadala lang ako kasi may tumutukso sa amin.&rdquo; A million questions run through your head as you look at two entirely different people who have shown interest in you, but there&rsquo;s no single answer that can resolve them all.
1. They don&rsquo;t ask you to shrink
Some may say that you&rsquo;re a person they can&rsquo;t handle, but the right person will never make you feel like you&rsquo;re &ldquo;too much.&rdquo; They won&rsquo;t compare you to anyone else or expect you to fit into a mold. If someone makes you feel like you need to be less so they can love you more, then they&rsquo;re not for you. Real love doesn&rsquo;t want you smaller&mdash;it meets you at your fullest.
2. They move at a healthy, comfortable pace
With them, you won&rsquo;t feel pressured. There are no ultimatums and no rush to define everything by a certain deadline. The right person won&rsquo;t make you feel guilty for wanting to take it slow because they&rsquo;re not in it for the benefits of being in a relationship&mdash;or in more popular terms, a love team. They&rsquo;re in it for a chance to love you fully.
3. They treat you like a partner, not a project
You don&rsquo;t need someone who wants to build you or fix you. Hindi ka naman project. You need someone willing to support you as you grow, at your own pace, in your own time. The right person won&rsquo;t rush to help you improve, and they won&rsquo;t make their love conditional on your progress.
Sometimes, the wrong person feels familiar while the right person feels almost too good to be true. &nbsp;But love isn&rsquo;t supposed to hurt more than it heals. You deserve the kind of love that chooses patience over pressure&mdash;a gentle love that says, &ldquo;You&rsquo;re enough, just as you are.&rdquo;
Always remember: the right person won&rsquo;t make you question your worth. Instead, they&rsquo;ll remind you of it every single day.
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