Chloe’s Inbox – Not all that glitters is gold
February 14, 2020
Hi DJ Chloe,
Good day. I’m here again po. My boyfriend from New York came here sa Pinas po. I love him. So binigay ko na po ang lahat ng meron ako. You know what I mean po. Now gusto niya ako magtake ng pills. 10 days ago na po since bumalik sa kanila. He wants me po na magtake ng pills para maprevent ‘yung pagbubuntis. DJ, never ako nagtry ng pills kasi natatakot ako sa side effects. He told me po, he’s not ready yet to have a baby. But myself, I’m ready na. So DJ Chloe, I told him na ayaw ko magtake ng pills. Nagagalit siya kasi nga po hindi pa daw kami ready. Which is kung gusto niya na hindi makabuntis sana nagcondom na lang, ‘di ba? Ang sakit DJ kasi nagsend siya sa’kin about abortion kung anong pills ang dapat inumin. Although hindi pa naman sure kung mabubuntis ako. It hurts knowing that if he got me pregnant, he wants to get rid of the baby. Ang sakit, DJ. Nagiging emotional ako kapag bata na ang pinag-usapan po. Sinabi ko rin sa kanya kapag nabuntis niya ako I’d rather choose the baby po kaysa kanya. Pasensya na, DJ, wala lang po mapagsabihan.
Hi Ms. Aquarius,
Good to know that you never gave in to his request, that you send him naked pics of yourself. But well, iba namang problema ang pinasok mo. You said you gave everything, so dapat ready ka din sa anything na p’wedeng mangyari. Like for one, getting pregnant. Dear, you can’t just take any pill, it has to be guided by your ob-gynecologist, may timing ‘yan girl. If you are family planning or not wanting to get pregnant, there’s also another kind, they call it the morning after pill. But I’m not sure if that is effective or it is being prescribed sa atin dito sa Pilipinas. you may or may not be pregnant, ‘di naman ibig sabihin that the moment you have a sexual intercourse, buntis ka na agad. If you’re not ovulating at the time you did it, then most likely hindi ka mabubuntis. There’s only one way to know, wait for your period. If it does not come, buy a pregnancy test kit and check. Better yet, consult a doctor for a pregnancy test. Don’t just take anything for fear of not getting pregnant because in case you are pregnant, there’s risk the baby might suffer dahil sa iinumin mong gamot. Clearly, sorry to say this, the guy was just after one thing, alam mo na ‘yun. Sana hindi ka buntis, kung makakaligtas ka, thank God and please use your brain next time. Now, if hindi ka buntis, check for HIV. Do you know this guy? Hindi, ‘di ba? That.. is another risk you’ve put yourself into. Reality check, girl. Don’t be too in love with love. Not everything that glitters is gold.