RELATIONSHIP AND SEX
5 Things my past relationship taught me
Milo Padpad, Intern
May 31, 2019
And it’s true when they said that your past will always teach you something so say thank you.
1. NEVER BEG FOR SOMEONE TO LOVE YOU IN RETURN
They say love blinds you and most of us become slaves of love. We tend to bend knees when love demands something. Yes, when situation comes and we forget our true identity because we become slaves of love, we tend to beg someone to love us in return. You know the saddest part? Even if you cry a lot and even if you beg he/ she will not love you back and will not come back anymore. When the person is done with you…everything between you is done.
2. LOVE YOURSELF FIRST
Many of us forget our value as human being. Little by little we are losing ourselves in loving. We are prioritizing others more than ourselves. While we are helping others, we must not forget that we also need to be happy first more than anyone else in this world. Caring for others is a noble one but caring for your own self first is divine.
3. FAMILY AND TRUE FRIENDS ARE EVERYTHING
When time comes that you will be shattered into pieces and you will feel that you are falling into an abyss, one thing is for sure your family is there to catch you. Whatever season it may be their love for you will fill in those gaps and brokenness inside your heart. Of course, true friends will always give you a helping hand, a shoulder to lean on, and a comforting hug when you feel you are all alone. So be sure to treasure them all!
4. FOCUS MORE IN YOUR PRIORITIES
When we are hurt, we sometimes get distracted and lose focus into our priorities. Most of the time, we dwell with the emotions for too long that we forget what our priorities and focus are. We neglect the things that we must do because the situation is hindering us to not to do it. So, if it is work, family, studies and personal matter make sure to handle it with care and with extra caution. These are pivotal things that have long-term contribution in your life.
5. CHOOSE TO MOVE ON AND TO BE HAPPY
Who knows? That what you are going through right now is one way of molding you into a better if not the best version of yourself? The pain and brokenness are requirements to remind you that you have still things to work on. Do not lose yourself in the process of healing. The most important things are to move on and to be happy. It doesn’t require payment. It only requires a decision you are going to choose. So, choose wisely, live to the fullest because you deserve the best feeling in the world. You are loved and appreciated.