5 Basics rules for happiness
October 25th, 2018
There will really be times that we grind so hard for our dreams that we’re being hard on ourselves. Don’t deny it, you’re guilty because you work so hard that you forget to loosen up a little bit. From time to time, we need a little break. But seriously, it’s all in our mindsets. We gotta handle grinding a little bit easy for us.
Bend and break a little, sweetie pie! It’s okay to stay focused on your goals. But don’t forget that all these goals are not the end all and be all of life. Consider your happiness and cliche as it may sound, it’s not all with what you want to gain. Sometimes real happiness is in the disposition of your heart.
1. LESSEN HATE
Hate is too heavy to bring every day. Let it go. Not that you’re not allowed to get mad or get hurt. It’s okay to wear your heart on your sleeves sometimes. But don’t let it consume you. Hate will steal all your joy and you it will cover the good things around you.
2. LESSEN WORRYING
Sometimes, when you’re not doing anything that’s the time that the universe can naturally move in your life. Worrying is human nature but don’t let it be your character. Sometimes you just have to let go and let things happen the way they should be. Always remember that for whatever it’s worth, it’s happening for a reason. And things will always unfold according to its purpose in your life. Eventually you’ll know why.
3. GIVE MORE
It doesn’t have to be money or material things. Give more time, effort, love, smiles, coffee, comfort, hugs, kisses, wisdom, not only to others but to yourself. It’s always fulfilling that from time to time we give a little bit of us to other people. It’s not to brag or to say that you have much when you give. But it’s actually the self-fulfillment.
4. EXPECT LESS
Expecting less, hurts you less. Whatever you’re giving away don’t think more of what you’ll get in return. Or don’t romanticize in your head what other people will give you or do for you. Expectation will only lead you to comparison or looking past on things you have, or you are blessed with. Expectation can lead you to discontent. And discontent blocks authentic happiness.
5. LIVE LIFE THE WAY IT IS
Stop complicating life. Stop forcing the things that aren’t meant for you. Live accordingly and chase your dreams one step at a time. You already know what is right and wrong for you. Always know that there is a perfect season for everything. Trust the timing and trust the process. Everything is possible for you. Just take the process slowly and surely.